Yeah, I know, to some people, that sounds downright disrespectful, maybe even sacrilegious. After all, this is a GODDESS we are talking about, right? Well, first, you need to get out of that monotheistic Christian mind-set. The deities are not out to denigrate or degrade us. They have their likes and dislikes, and their everyday pleasures and past times, and it's only a matter of finding out the ones that are appropriate to them. There are, in most branches of paganism, certain deities that are extremely sexual oriented, and there is to them no shame in this.
With this in mind, for a man to invoke the goddess, is quite a simple process. The setting is everything. A nicely decorated room, dark with pink and/or violet candles and flowers, wafting incense of patchouli, sandlewood, or lavender. Speaking of lavender-try a nice warm essential oil of lavender and cinnamon mixed evenly, perhaps with a drop or two of Ylang Ylang, added to a couple of ounces of heated olive oil. Oh yeah, I almost forgot, you might want to add a bowl of rice. If you want to really be extravagant, make it a bowl of rice pudding, with plump juicy raisins. Arrange the bouquet of flowers, the candles, incense, oils, etc., along with maybe a bottle of wine, and you are ready to go. All you need then is a comfortable mat, and one more thing-the goddess.
Now, of course, you are not going to physically acquire the goddess. Or are you? After all, the deities are in-dwelling, in us all. So, you know a woman, perhaps a married one even, who is not all that satisfied with her marriage? A prostitute, perhaps, though you should make sure she is free of disease. Hhhmmm, maybe you'd better just stick to the sexy neighbor. Don't be concerned that she may be a Christian woman, or a non-pagan. The deities dwell in us all, including non-pagans. Just the same, she doesn't necessarily have to know what you are up to, as far as you using her for a surrogate substitute for the goddess. And that is what you are going to do, use her as a vessel to invoke the goddess Aphrodite. First, by massaging the oil all over her body, as sensuously as you can. Silently invoke the aid of the goddess as you allow her to guide you in your endeavors.
Then, begin the oral stimulation. You will know you have succeeded when you hear her crying out in ecstasy. Especially, if she says "oh, God!". But you shouldn't get the big head over this. Remember, this is a method of servicing the needs of the goddess, not of pursuing your own lusts, of satisfying your own desires. Put the needs of the goddess first and foremost, and you will be rewarded accordingly (though this should not be your goal or intent).
A word of warning, however. Do not perform oral sex on her if it turns out that she is in the middle of her menstrual cycle. That is not how you would go about invoking Aphrodite. That is how you would go about invoking Hecate. But that will be the subject of a different, future blog post.
4 comments:
Oookay. That was an interesting read.
Thanks. Of course there are other ways of invoking Aphrodite that are completely non-sexual, and of performing service for her. One example might be that of providing some form of aid and assistance to victims of sexual abuse, or victims of domestic violence, or to women who are poor and indigent. Though you should in fact do these things without expectation of reward or sexual favor on their part. The prior ritual in question should only be performed on a willing participant, not on one who is put in a position of needing help and so acting out of desperation.
i don't get you..
i mean i thought i was one person i knew with too many values/beliefs that would seem contradictory.. and yet here you are.. many many of your posts are about political stuff.. many more about logical stuff.. infact you thought i should not readily believe in stuff written about ancient civilizations.. and this post is about "invoking Aphrodite" !!!!
:( i don't get you.. but the post was verrry interesting.
WELL...just happened by your posting and I have to say me and Aphrodite is waiting to be risen!
And I dont mind it be done the ole fashion way...I like to keep it simple :)
Thank you very much for your candid instructions...I am sure the inner goddess would LOVE to honoured so noblely.
- Morningmoon *X*
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